Marina'sTwin
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Ok y'all, this is a sensitive topic. But I figured everyone here probably has grand kids or knows someone who does, so I figured maybe y'all could help me out. So basically what happened today is I was sitting on the porch talking to my grandparents because my parents want me to spend more time with them, so it started out normal enough. But then they started asking me when I was planning on settling down with a nice man and having them some great grand kids. Well without really thinking, I said "I'm not going to marry a man." And because they never really listen to me, I didn't really expect them to pick up on that. But then my grandma said "Honey, are you saying you're gay?" And it kind of caught me off guard because I really wasn't expecting her of all people to just come right out and ask me that. So I said "Well, yeah, I've been a lesbian all my life." And she said "Oh, ok." And my grandpa looked pretty shocked. I swear his eyes nearly popped out of his head, but he didn't say anything, so I just decided to change the subject. But I know they're going to say something later on when it really sinks in, so I guess what I'm asking is: do y'all think I did the right thing? Or was I totally wrong for killing their hopes of having great grand children? Because my sister has already said she's not going to have any children, so I was pretty much their last hope. And I know y'all will be mature about this topic even if it's something y'all may not agree with and y'all are kind of like my older and wiser friends, so I guess that's why I'm posting this here.
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